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DIRECTOR'S BLOG
Eight Counts Behind: Parenting, Dance & Other Extreme Sports
A place for parents raising flexible humans — offering humor, perspective, and encouragement around body image, confidence, and excellence without perfection.


Eight Counts Behind: Parenting, Dance & Other Extreme Sports
I was born eight days late – the daughter of a dance teacher, minus functioning hip-sockets. Not exactly a natural talent. More a pillow-splint and corrective shoes sort of gal, who tripped over her own feet when running. With hard-work and a decade of dance training (cue Rocky soundtrack), I revealed myself to be .… still not great. But I loved dance! All of it - the music, the challenge, the stage, and a creative world where a pigeon-toed, legally blind kid (yep, I h
stephanierp4
Jan 81 min read


The Ripple Effect
I often talk to my students about the ripple effect. Every action we put into the world creates one—positive or negative. The small things matter, of course, but it’s the larger, long-term commitments we make that send waves outward, like circles on the surface of a river, they continue… long after we’ve stepped away. The goal? Create as wide and as positive a ripple as you can. Today, I had the privilege of visiting the campus of Indiana University to celebrate the senior pe
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Apr 192 min read


Beyond the Awards: Epic’s Real Win at Tremaine Dance Convention
There are moments in a dance season that feel big. Tremaine Dance Convention & Competition is one of them. Yes—there were awards. Beautiful, shiny, well-earned awards. The kind that represent hours of Saturday morning rehearsals, sore muscles, and a specific brand of determination that builds strong dancers. And yes, we’re incredibly proud. Our dancers brought home: 🏆 1st Place – Tap Trio 🏆 1st Place – Senior Company Contemporary 🏆 1st Place & Overall High Score – Hip Ho
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Mar 243 min read


What I Did For Love
The first time I heard this song, I was ten years old, crouched at the top of our staircase, watching the Johnny Carson Show . It was way past my bedtime but I was (and still am) an insomniac. Falling asleep was never my strong suit, but eavesdropping on late-night television? Natural talent. The song is from the 1975 musical "A Chorus Line." In the scene, a dancer suffers a career-ending injury, and the remaining dancers are asked: What would you do if you were told
stephanierp4
Feb 172 min read


Bras, Zits & Elephants - A Love Letter to our Bodies
Legally blind, dodgeballs smashed into my face before I ever saw them coming. Pigeon-toed, I tripped over my own feet and wore corrective shoes until I was twelve. I was… not cool. But in the dance studio, my blind, tiny, bendy frame became an asset. I could repeat a movement until I looked almost coordinated. It worked. And then—puberty. An uninvited guest who showed up with bras, pads, tampons, hips, and a chest that jiggled when I moved (rude). My tights indent revealed a
stephanierp4
Feb 52 min read


Why Goals Matter for Kids: From Scallops to Lumpsuckers
I remember how proud I felt the day my young swimmer advanced from Scallop to Guppie . As I watched her strong, self-assured doggy paddle, I imagined Olympic gold. Possibly a parade. The next few months were intoxicating. She rocketed through the preschool ranks—Cuttlefish, Mackerel—and eventually reached the pinnacle of aquatic achievement: Lumpsucker . We were living the dream! And then… things stalled. Grade school arrived, and suddenly there were no more adorable titl
stephanierp4
Jan 92 min read
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